First Date

Do not miss this free dating advice!

 Here are five keys to a successful first date.

1.  Take him/her somewhere other than your house on a first date - unless they request it and you are comfortable with the request

2.  Use manors - this does not mean put on airs about who you are, but some basic common courtesy would be nice

3.  Be honest, but brief - do not lie if asked a question you feel awkward answering, but keep the answer as brief as possible without going into the details 

4.  Find out what he/she likes - in return let them know what you like, and be honest, as you do not have to like the exact same things for them to like you, and remember to mix both common ground and differences to spice up discussions 

5.  Let the date proceed naturally - do not try to cut the date too short even if things are going well and you want to leave on a high note, nor try to force the date to keep going all night just because you feel a vibe..save some for later

Please leave comments to discuss this topic.  Feel free to share your tails of failures and successes on first dates.  Tell us what went right and what went wrong so others may learn.

Keeping Love Alive

Much of what you read here, or elsewhere for that matter, may seem like common sense.  In fact, it is.  Unfortunately it is all too easy for many people, all of us really, to lose sight of the things that look us smack dab in the face.  We tend to over think, or ignore with our conscious mind what deep down we know to be true.

Remember, no one is locked into some non-binding contract with you.  You have to do more than attract someone initially if you want a successful relationship.  You must keep them attracted, as they must do the same to you.  

You can let your hair down at times around them once you get to know them.  There is nothing wrong with getting comfortable and being oneself.  However, this does not mean taking your partner for granted.

So here is a list of eight little things to do on occasion, even if not all the time, to show you still care.

1.        Saying “I Love You”

2.       Random Small Gifts

3.       Hugging, kissing, offering a gentle caress or massage

4.       Smiling and telling them they are still as attractive as the day you met

5.       Opening a door for him or her

6.       Taking him or her on a date of his or her choice or someplace spontaneous (decided based on his/her personality and use your best judgment as to which you think is best)

7.       Prepare a special meal for him or her

8.       Random telephone call just to say you are thinking of him or her

If you have questions or want to make your own suggestions to add to the conversation then please leave comments.

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