Many men probably face this dilemma when first dating a new woman actually. Should he or should he not be opening doors?
Sure, it seems simple, and not much to worry about. Most men, not really thinking about the question hard, would advise another man to play it safe and open the doors. It is not that simple though.If the man does open doors a woman might actually take it as too old fashioned, or sexist. Though many men will say this should not be something big enough to turn a woman off and that if it does bother her she should speak up. However, minor things often can kill a connection. Some women may simply let a man know right off the bat she does not like doors being opened for her. Some may just expect a man to figure it out on his own.
So what do you do if you want to be a gentleman while also be progressive? The first time you get a chance, open the car door, restaurant door, etc for your lady friend, smile, and make a simple comment such as, "My grandmother taught me to always open doors for women," or even be honest and direct with something like, "I am never absolutely sure when to open doors for a lady."
These leave her the opportunity to respond as if you asked question, even though you did not directly do so. Hopefully she will politely let you know her feelings on the matter with a smile. It might actually lead into a fun conversation. See how it goes for yourself.
If any ladies read this please share your own thoughts on the matter.
